I celebrated my 55th birthday three months ago. I didn’t expect the number itself to have the impact that it has. I think this particular birthday so far has been the one that has had me soul searching like no other.
Turning 55 has been a wake-up call that reminds me that there is an end to my life. I can’t continue to neglect thinking about what I want from my life because I realize now that the days I have to achieve it are numbered.
At first I responded to this revelation of 55 from a perspective of defeat. But as I sought the advice of others whose success I respected, I realized that it is never too late to fight the clock to get what you want. Just like I was in and out of college a number of times before I finally decided on a major that I stuck to, maybe I’m just someone who needs time to figure it out.
As I’ve been trying to sort this all out, the one thing that stands out is that it’s not going to get sorted out without my attention and energy. Giving my life up to chance isn’t going to work as I set my intentions on creating a more meaningful life experience.
My response to the wake-up call has brought a key benefit —
It has made me look at what I want from my personal and business life in a new light. After evaluating what I don’t like about things now, I’ve been able to put a clear new focus on what I’d like to accomplish immediately.
I feel very excited. Try it for yourself.
Digging for Meaning 
It’s happened to me, too. And it probably happens to everyone eventually, the wake-up call about age. For me, it happened this year at 60. I’m a different person today. I’m also a better, more informed person, not to mention happier. It was gratifying to read your take, Susan, on what 55 meant to you and how your issues echoed many of mine. Thanks for posting and sharing! – Mike Andberg at mikeandberg.com.
Thanks, Mike, for your sharing. I enjoyed reading bits from your site and particularly enjoyed the “Girls” excerpt from your memoir, Maybe Boomer. Best to you.