This summer as we’ve been sheltering at home a male and female duck couple started coming around to our deck. And of course we fed them. Not bread though, because we learned bread fails in nutritional value. Instead, a mixture of dry oatmeal, tiny bits of organic rice cakes, and the ground peanut and sunflower mix. We fill the feeder for the doves, sparrows, blue jays and other birds who visit our trees.
Let me tell you. Word has gotten out about our food supply! The other ducks who hang out in our waterway have begun to stop by. The Canadian Geese who cruise by began to notice the ducks dining at our deck. Now they are stopping by. Tonight they brought their young children.
It’s been fun observing the behavior of these birds and recognizing how similar they are to humans. The male tends to make sure his female partner has had enough to eat before he eats. We see the birds nip at each other to fight for the ability of their loved ones to eat. They are social creatures who respond to the words of us humans who they are beginning to trust.
How Quickly Habits Can Form
What has fascinated me the most is how quickly the birds developed the habit of eating at our place. We see the birds once and then they return the next and subsequent days.
I relate this to new habits and beliefs that I have recently created in my own life. The most significant is how I can choose the thoughts and energy that I invite into my life.
I’ve recently developed the early morning habit of getting on my spin bike with an inspirational book on my iPad. Just like the ducks realizing how well this feeds me, it became a habit quickly formed. When I rise in the morning there’s no wavering. Whether it’s a 10 or 45-minute ride, spinning with positive thoughts is how I like starting each day.
For me this has been a lot more then an exercise in workout discipline. It’s been recognizing how good it feels to feed my soul. And how easy it can be to make that a habit. The key is telling myself that his is what I do.
The book that has been my morning spin companion this past week has been Change Your Thinking Change Your Life by Brian Tracy. One of my biggest takeaways is how important your choices are in how you spend your time as it relates to the goal of creating the life you want.
Every day is a new slate. Can you think of one new habit you’d like to make to take a step towards creating the life you want?
Be well,
Susan